A children is like a wild animal, if you don’t tame that animal it will later bite you, but even if you tame it really well may still bite you – best analogy ever
Slavewhipper69
Children are wonderful creatures,you will always smile when your child will come... home with a 10 at the hardest class in school and always get mad when he/she came home smelling like a tobacco factory.The answer is , should we repay them for good behavior with money or let them live freely and do all the bad stuff like we did ?
First things first how much is enough to buy your children ? What are you teaching your children if they will expect that for all the things they do to be rewarded or not , will they have their own personality anymore ? Their actions will not be truly theirs , just the deep desire to be payed after everything they do , everything about them will just be a big lie .
Second things second , that’s not how life works .I can imagine how they would react after they are trying to get a job and they’ll have all the requirements , but still he/she isn’t chosed based on some non important generic facts . They’re whole world will be crushed , they’re payment for all the hard work will never come and they’ll come up as loosers , all because of your bad parenting.
Admittedly, ...............
Anyway , you can’t always predict that those children will be as I said , bcs this is not a science and I can’t be always right , but based on statistics and sociologi , many of those children have a higher chance of lack of perseverance and overall lower stands in every aspect of their life
Last edited by teacherovi (2017-11-12 16:16:48)